She knew there was no arguing with him. She did have some time coming to her. Maybe she would take it after all.

but men dive into our bodies and won't hesitate to think if he's degrading us in any way" ...what!?

‘Being Julia’

Then she asked if I wanted something. My heart jumped a little at the surprise, then she offered to give me a blowjob.

As for your wife, she is already cheating on you emotionally, if not physically. Though I believe she has had sex with him. Why? Because she received a pic of this "friend"'s wife naked having intercourse with another man and only told you two months later. This was a subtle indication from her that she wanted your approval of a swinging arrangement or open marriage which she has already started on her own with your friend. She was testing the waters and waiting to hear from you whether you wanted to do it too. Omitting the part about how you crushed hard on the other guy isn't dishonest, MESS, it's considerate. I mean, if it turns out your ex dated someone else that he really, really liked while he was in his home country, would you want him to tell you that?Dear Dan: My wife got drunk at a vacation house we rented with a bunch of friends and cheated on me with my best friend in the hot tub. They didn't have sex but they did other things. I wasn't there, but there were eight other people in the hot tub and the jets were on, so no one else saw what was going on "under the water." My wife told me about it afterward and I was hurt but also kind of excited. She proposed we "even the score" by asking my friend and his wife to have a foursome. They agreed but the experience was miserable. My wife and my friend were very into each other and my friend's wife was willing, but I was having a hard time enjoying myself with a woman I had no interest in while my wife did things for my best friend that she would never do for me. She let him come in her mouth, which is something she never lets me do, and she did it right in front of me. Now she says she will do that for me but only if she can keep doing it for him. This seems deeply unfair. We have kids and I don't want to get divorced, but I'm concerned that I'm going to keep getting hurt if I stay. What can I do? I need ... He gently laid her down on the bed and started to take his shirt off. She stopped him. "Here let me," she said with lust in her eyes. She slowly unbuttoned his shirt, one button at a time. Once again his lips were upon hers. Next came the belt and then his pants. His head came from upon her mouth, her lips red and swollen from his kisses. I felt more in touch with myself. Maybe it was the tequila working its magic, but a dormant place had been awakened inside of me and it was singing. I’m usually not that comfortable with letting it all hang out, but none of that mattered. Our two bodies were coming together and it felt totally empowering. Despite having unshaven legs, chipping toenail polish, and hair all over the place, I felt sexier than ever before.