A Girl's Guide to Femdom: Tips, Tricks, Rituals and Punishments for Every Week of the Year

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Female led relationships aren't black or white, you can easily form your own perfect combination that will satisfy any and all of your desires. The weight of your body on theirs puts you in a power position and allows you to take control subtly whilst they just lay there unable to move. If you choose to enjoy gentle femdom it’s a great way to build up trust with a partner and feel a great connection, this can happen whether you’re a newbie or practice femdom (I have some amazing femdom bedroom ideas here) all of the time. Now that you’ve got some ideas for activities and devices you can use t0 exact a little — or a lot — of pain, what kind of roles can you play that will work with femdom? You can ride him around, instruct him to crawl on all fours with your crop and even reward him with a carrot — or something more tantalizing — if he’s a good boy.

And while the police may have special zip-tie handcuffs, they aren’t like regular zip ties that you would use to keep your cords organized.Four ways on his front: Securing his four limbs to each corner of the bed except this time on his front, this is amazing for pegging, with complete control, gentle spanking, and massage. Jay Wiseman’s Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction is a fantastic resource that teaches about the practical elements of BDSM and can give you some creative femdom ideas.

Humiliation for me comes from being treated in demeaning ways and tones and whippings dressed as a macho man.For extra torture, some cages have spike-lined insides, which give the wearer extra motivation to avoid boner town. Your partner must agree to a Dominant/submissive (Dom/sub or D/s) relationship and that they’ll take on the role of the latter. It’s all fun and games until Gertrude from accounting gets assaulted by the drunk boys from sales after the office Christmas party. If they’re the more dominant personality outside the bedroom, then it’s their turn to get a taste of feeling helpless and controlled. Give a blowjob or a handjob, the second he is about to cum, grip the bottom of his cock, stop everything, and ask: “who told you you could come yet?

My wife and I enjoyed this and I had a wonderful release, which is usually not the case with issue I have. Restraints are used to keep your sub however you want them, they are used to tease, deny and give your sub a loss of power. Sub: I am eager, willing to do as you say with complete enthusiasm and appreciation, I will give myself to you because I trust you fully. Those niche fetish activities and sadistic and masochistic stuff are all fine and well for those small number of people that are actually into it, but for most wondering how to get into simple power exchange as a way to enhance loving relationships your advice was great.After discovering I had an appetite for gentle femdom myself, I found the energy and exchange followed me into my daily life. It’s a community with millions of very happy people who all love the dominant yet light and pleasant side of this type of relationship. This is a type of men’s kinkwear that prohibits both access to the penis and achieving a full erection. The 103 third parties who use cookies on this service do so for their purposes of displaying and measuring personalized ads, generating audience insights, and developing and improving products. A kinky technique that a dominant female can use is when her sub is permitted an orgasm, he must don on his back and legs spread as a female.

There’s no other way of saying it, but if you have objectively negative qualities, change them ASAP. Cum as a weapon: Use his orgasm as a naughty weapon to get him to submit, if you make me cum, you can cum, if you’re extra good today you can cum, if you wear your collar all day we can squeeze you in for a pegging session. You can bring your sub to a place with orgasms that he has never been, if you have ever given a man a prostate orgasm you know what I’m talking about, once he is there there’s no going back and with gentle femdom pegging is a way that many doms like to show their sub who is boss whilst also giving them out of this world pleasure.If you have any femdom games and foreplay techniques you use, let me know in the comments below, I adore hearing from you all. Use your hand, foot, a flogger or whip, a cane, a paddle, or something else to smack your man’s butt when he’s been naughty. Whether you’re on a budget or simply unsure if you like something, you can often find something at your home to DIY it! I made the idea and copyrighted it and it isnt about making money if it does it does but it’s about it being my fantasy and mine only…sure you can stand at end of the bed or if short on a stool so his mouth reaches your clitoris but the apparatus I have come up with and copyrighted makes it kinky af and me own it. In fact, sometimes a dominant does something for their submissive, and it can be an act of love and care as is often the case with gentle femdom.