During this wait, Sissy might be plugged with a dildo (it’d be cute if a little bell were attached to the exposed end). Sissy’s mouth might be similarly plugged, also with bell, so plugged and belled at both ends. Did you know studies show that over 65% of women fantasize about being submissive? It’s true. Women like dominant guys who know how to take control in the bedroom — there’s no doubt about it. Different subs have different fantasies and reasons for enjoying being dominated. If you want to really drive your sub wild in bed, you’ll need to understand what these fantasies are. The reason it’s especially important when it comes to dominance is that your sub’s role may involve them shouting ‘no’ and acting like they have no control when, in reality, they’re enjoying it. You need a way to know if at any point they really want to stop; when ‘no’ actually means ‘no.’

Impact play is another tool of domination that can help you to create a better experience for your submissive. A lot of subs enjoy the physical sensation of being spanked, flogged, lightly choked, slapped, or anything similar. You are an Awesome Woman, and all the Women on this blog are so Delightful and doing so much for Womankind, but it is now Time that men be called out for what they are, Pretty and Delightful sissies, under the Control of their Female Spouses!Dave was going to get up but all the sudden felt a overwhelming compulsion to stay. A wave of sexual tension rushed in on his mind. His skin started to tingle and his teeth almost felt like chattering, he was so nervous, and sexually exited he couldn't move. He just stayed there as the foot slowly and sensually continued to bob a six inches from his face. I want a man that understands obedience. I want a man that structures his whole life around making me happy. My man will follow my rules every day and will always be striving to please me. Through serving me, his life will have real focus and purpose. My man will wholeheartedly accept my training to make him a better husband. He will be my bitch, and he will gain an enormous sense of purpose, calm and wellbeing by being my bitch” A few days went by when one of Jen's best friend s from school wanted to invite her to a party at her house. Apparently, her friends parents were going out of town so she had to look after the house while they were gone. Jen looked down, thanks but I can't, my dad put me on restriction for another week and a half.

Chokers are a great, stylish signaling piece that you can have your sub wear in and out of the bedroom. Why People Like Dom/sub Relationships A particular scene can last as long as you agree on with your sub. It might be minutes, hours, or even days/weeks. For example, some D/s partners agree to maintain their power dynamics while on vacation to spice up their holiday. Their vacation is now one big D/s scene, where the Dom always takes the dominant role, and the sub always submits. You will sit down to pee. Any pee on the rim or the seat will result in punishment, whether it is you or one of your friends. According to the peer reviewed medical sources I’ve consulted, failure to drain Sissy’s uh – clitty juices is actually harmful, in terms of leading to serious health consequences for her prostate.Restricting or stopping male ejaculation, once they’ve done their job of procreation, would appear to be better for them. We have been married 14 years. We discovered the components of a wife led marriage (WLM) or female led relationships (FLR) almost 3 years ago, and actually renewed our wedding vows to be consistent with a wife led marriage. Our renewed wedding vows included Gary’s commitment to “obey” Kathy, and for Kathy to accept her role as head of our household and the final authority on all decisions in our home. We are both professionals in business with college degrees. Most people would look at Gary and see a powerful, masculine and assertive man. But at heart he is a masculine, but naturally submissive man. Kathy, on the other hand is a warm, feminine and sexy woman. She is also a natural born leader and thrives on making things happen by exerting her authority in a very positive manner. Gary discovered the subject of domestic discipline while searching for more information on WLM(wife led marriage) and steps couples in wife led marriages take to maintain the woman’s authority. Gary has always responded very well to reinforcements and punishments as a way of steering his behavior. while our WLM was going very well compared to the traditional marriage we had the first 11 years of our marriage, it still had a few challenges. We started practicing domestic discipline about 6 months ago thinking it might enhance our already fulfilling wife led marriage. Incorporating domestic discipline into our WLM has been one of the best things we have ever done. It has had a profound and positive effect on Gary’s behavior and obedience. Domestic discipline has also reinforced Kathy’s authority, resulting in what we now feel is a near perfect marriage. The biggest challenge for us is incorporating our wife led marriage into our relationships with our children. Like all couples we sometimes have differing opinions on how to respond to issues with children. That conflict of opinion was a significant challenge for us prior to our commitment to WLM, and has improved even more since incorporating domestic discipline into our marriage. Gary has a great deal of input on the issues with children, but in the end Kathy makes the decision and Gary is expected to embrace her decision. If he fails to do so he will be punished quite severely, because this is a very important issue to Kathy. The same holds true for Doms. A Dom might feel out of control in their life due to a demanding job, an overbearing boss, and other pressures of everyday life. This might be why they thrive off of the opportunity to feel like they’re in control in bed. It Provides Boundaries for the Sub In romance fiction, for example, there’s often a weak damsel-in-distress and a powerful, macho hero that sweeps her off her feet.

This does not mean I’ll put Alice into chastity; our sex life will continue as before. The single difference to our relationship will be that Alice will never be allowed to orgasm/ejaculate again. My wife is certainly not as interested as you are in things like feminization, which I crave, but has progressed in some increments. Mostly I do things myself with her grudging acceptance and occasional encouragement. Things are more entertaining too. I can tease her more by playing with her little princess, stopping to let her calm down, then starting again, reminding her she’s not allowed to cum. I’m working on how far I can go. I’d like to be able to get her to the last nanosecond cusp before stopping.

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It was 6:30pm I just finished up at the office when my cell phone rang. It was Carol a lady I had met last week at a conference. When I stood up to leave she gave me one of those light but slightly seductive French kisses on the side of my cheek and I left. I’m not convinced I believe the sources you mention that suggest that total abstinence is physically and mentally healthy for Sissy.

Even if you both agree to try it, your sub could still change their mind. As such, be mindful of how your sub responds to any impact play and, if you think they might not be enjoying it, stop straight away. 9. Be Confident This thought process led to my second realisation. After Alice cums, she tends to lose a certain degree of attention in me and her femininity. She still behaves, but there’s a noticeable reduction in her keenness to please. It’s detectable and I don’t like it. Ok when you wake you will remember nothing while you were in this trance, it will be as if nothing happened. Do you understand? you will feel well rested. Girls she looked over at her sister and niece who were noticeably giggling. My wife and daughter just giggled: this is going to be so much fun lol. You’ll also need to think about caveats. For example, part of your arrangements might be for you, as the Dom, to control the finances, but what if you become ill? Is your sub allowed to pay the shared bills while you’re away? Ok. Dave Sarah said, every time you hear the word foot fetish you will be in a trance but still aware of everything but unable to control your sexual impulses. When you smell our or any other girls foot smell you will automatically be turned on almost uncontrollably. you will be able to fight it but only after a tremendous amount of effort. the more you smell at anyone time however the less able you will be to resist the temptation.

What’s the biggest challenge you face being in an flr relationship, or what do you struggle with the most? Some of our rules include such things as the area of decision making. Once Kathy has asked Gary for his input, and genuinely considers his position she will make a decision that she feels is best for our marriage and family. Once she has made her decision, Gary is expected to not only accept her decision, but to really “embrace” the decision. Once she makes a decision she does not allow complaining, whining or rehashing it. If he violates that rule he is generally harshly spanked with a paddle or cane. another of our rules is that if Gary ever curses at Kathy, speaks disrespectfully to her, walks away in a huff, etc., Kathy generally would wash his mouth out with soap and then rather severely spank him. A third rule is related to finances. Kathy is much better at financial management than Gary. She gives him a small allowance each week, and if he runs out of money he is to come to her and ask for additional funds. If he ever buys something outside of his allowance by using a credit or debit card without first getting her prior approval, he is generally spanked quite severely. Another rule is in the area of housework. Gary is responsible for most of the household chores, including laundry, dusting, vacuuming, washing the floors, etc. If he does not complete his chores on time or in the manner Kathy expects she will typically ask him for an explanation and then dole out punishment if necessary. All of our rules were developed together and we both agreed on the consequences if the rule is broken. I’m writing about your latest innovation in the control of your sissy. While I appreciate the erotic humiliations you impose on her (the poor dear hahaha), and your delicious control over every little aspect of her life and dress, behavior and act, ratcheting it up to the point of totally denying her any relief is kinda’ jaw-dropping . Non? Oui! Tell us a little bit about yourselves. How old you are, how long you’ve been married (or, in a relationship), how you heard about domestic discipline, what made you start practicing, etc? If you know what kind of sub your partner is, it’ll be easier to suggest scenes that they’re likely to enjoy and better play your part. 4. Maintain Your Role Outside of the Bedroom